BY JUDITH ROSS ENDERLE
In January one is supposed to make resolutions to mend one’s ways or achieve greatness or rid oneself of unhealthy habits.
Well, I don’t want to mend my ways; I realize I’m pretty happy with the way my ways are now.
I’ve achieved some greatness and lost some greatness and have landed back in the middle which isn’t a bad place to be. No need to resolve other than to keep moving forward and let the words fall where they may.
So that leaves unhealthy habits, usually involving food and exercise. I can swear off sugar entirely (I’m quite sweet enough), but that would be a wasted swear since I know right well that I’ll still have two biscotti with my coffee in the afternoon. So why waste a swear? As to exercise, I walk and I garden and I clean house, so my parts are moving, not too fast nor too slow. No need to promise to exercise more than that.
Thus I’ve come to realize that this resolution business is more of a taking stock, but it doesn’t mean you have to change a single thing. And how many of the resolutions actually last more than two months? Still, it is the first of a new year. How can I break tradition? So in the spirit of the new year, here are my resolves:
1: Change what I don’t like; keep what I like about me.
2: TRY to be more patient with myself and with others.
3: Make Words with Friends a reward, not a replacement for writing. A paragraph counts as writing, doesn’t it?
4: Make it one biscotti with coffee instead of two. (I know I won’t keep this one. See? A wasted swear.)
5: Be thankful for loving family and friends. This one I can do! I am so very blessed.
6: Get back to work. I can do this right now.
Off to a fine start. Six is a good number of resolutions for a year that ends in 6. May 2016 be a great year for you and yours and good luck with your resolutions. (Save your swears, you made need them when rejections show up, unless you’ve resolved not to let rejection bother you. Let me know how this works out, so I can use it for my resolution next year.)